Our parting

I want to tell you the story of our parting.
Not about the parting when you are abandoned
and you think nothing else matters anymore.
I am living in another country for quite some
time now, but home is always where the heart
is, so every summer I pack my bags and leave
for my favorite country. Last summer was
different.
I felt grown-up and wise, attractive and a
woman who left the child years behind. I
wasn’t ready to allow yet another love
disappointment and unrequited love, as I did
last summer. I decided to fill up my vacation
with friends, parties, discos and short flirts.
But I was only thinking I could do that. To my
surprise I met the love of my life. Mutual
friends introduced us.
For a long time I was wondering what to do,
shall I love him, shall I try to avoid him and
get rid of my thoughts about him...? I like him,
Ch. won my trust. Made me feel like a
princess. I fell madly in love.
I felt him so close. We spent all our time
together. We went to bars, parties, discos….We
shared everything, we talked of life, we
laughed….I felt he was not only my boyfriend
but my closest friend as well! He was so
tender, we had amazing nights together,
passionate kisses, he gave me a love so crystal
clear that only time could stand in its way.
Before I knew it summer was over and I had to
go back.
The last couple of days I felt confused and
insecure.
I didn’t know what would happen with my life.
I didn’t know what to say, or to plan…..It was
the same with Ch.
Our last two dinners were silent.
We sat and watched and sighed. I tried to start
a conversation, to seem light-hearted, as I
usually am, but it wasn’t possible.
I wanted to tell him how much I loved him,
wanted to say that I can’t let this end so
suddenly, but I lacked the words.
Something wouldn’t let me say it. I was asking
myself "What if he abandons meа"?
During my last night with him I cried a lot. We
spent it alone. It was all so romantic. He gave
me a gift that touched me and I knew he cared
about me.
And then he said: "My dear, I will be waiting
for you"! Suddenly all my being lit up and
shined. He walked with me to the entrance.
My heart ached when I turned and saw the
man of my dreams leave.
But I knew we will be together again next
summer.
This was not parting as the one everyone has
felt at least once in life; the one that hurts so
much because you realize you are not loved
any more. This was a parting that might even
wake up an even bigger love. Some of you
might say that relationships like these are
impossible, because it is hard to wait and love
someone and be so far away. I thought the
same thing before it all happened to me.
I spoke to Ch. Today. Within two weeks we will
be together again!:)
He sounded so happy!
I love you, sweetheart!